Learn how to Feel Safe and Have True Love
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
A lot of people carry over trust problems from past relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The strong emotions from these memories can be a real player in our ability to create and sustain a lasting loving relationship. That was absolutely real in my case, and I was not able to free myself from past emotional experiences until I acquired assistance from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to discover truly what recurrence you have in play that’s preventing you from truly living and then expunge it from your mind.
Do some journal work and answer these questions:
What happened in my relationship and did I make it mean something it did not actually have to?
What is the most pervasive emotion that occurs concerning this event?
What is the most recent time I can recall when I experienced a similar incident, or felt the same way?
Pay mind to how this conclusion or judgement you discovered concerning the earliest incident is a way of being that has you reacting to similar situations.
When the problem is trust, it is usually comes from an earlier experience and there’s a deeply held belief about your safety in relationships or in general. Most likely, this previous relationship wasn’t the first occurrence you have experienced trust problems. What you believe and feel and what occurs in your life experience is continuously a vibrational equal. Learning how to self coach with law of attraction transformational tools and techniques helps you understand what beliefs you hold that operate as a fixed emotion. There is no room for growth or expansion when you contain an emotion that is solidified in your mind. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.
Beliefs are just thoughts that you, your culture, and all people around you, keep thinking. Thoughts, thought upon long enough change into thought form. Thought forms transfer into actual reality when you, or others in your life, continue calling it up. You view it “out there” as evidence to support your thoughts or beliefs. After a while these thought forms turn into part of your physical reality.
Ultimately it is what you do with the thought and the judgement that goes alongside it, and the interpretation of what you believe is good or bad concerning what you’re seeing or thinking. The interpretation turns the belief into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. The feeling is what transmits to the Universe that then attracts the essence of it and the emotional level is mirrored back in your life experience.
When you have created more positive energy, start to create a positive mindset for what is possible in a relationship. Let your imagination help you. Use time imagining yourself with a loving partner. You enjoy taking walks together. You’re holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your mind is a powerful asset and your thoughts in conjunction with heartfelt emotion change your thoughts into magnets. If you’re suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you will practice these tools you will find you’ll not just trust again, but create the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all areas.