How To Liberate Your Mind from the Threat of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …
“I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I truly want to reach my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and releasing the past. Considering you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you might imagine. Getting help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and letting go from your previous relationship. Consider emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really should be forgiven for his behavior. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You are allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that slow energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your power in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more impairing. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, muss up your energy field and prevent you from moving in the right direction to having the life you were born to live. You can speed up this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. First off, I’m not talking of the kind of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to know what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of hurt, you’ll either attract more pain or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.